Choice of Products: The One Directional Desiree is selective but finds it easy to pick his choice because he is only looking for a utility product. His attitude towards a new product is like an examiner, to test it thoroughly after which, if the product or service passes his test, it becomes his life time product. He will preach the gospel of the advantages and disadvantages of the products to his family and friends and may even advise his generation to patronize such product. They are usually the most loyal customer of companies that trade in goods and services of their choice.
Note; When it comes to choice of product, we have different products for different purposes. The same principle applies for these people. A type of dress, let say a Prada product. A person with the One Directional Desiree pattern will always patronize Prada clothing wear. He may go further to purchase their shoes or bags if such is a lady. Everything he may purchase about his clothing and what you will find in his wardrobe may be all through Prada, but if Prada produces soft drinks, this person may not patronize their drinks. Yet, if the name of the Drink is Chi-Vita, he will continue to patronize Chi-Vita Drinks Company. Whatever product they purchase for a different use will be a continuous desire. Close associates will notice this about them and may even tag them to know the originality of the product when they need it in mass number. Offcourse, they will have personal data and regular updates about the product or service and friends close to them will come seeking for their advice from time to time on the product. Since they are One Directional Desiree, they will also have information about similar product or service relative to their choice but they won’t substitute it for theirs.
Choice of Religion: A One Directional Desiree is not easily moved by gospels preached by authorities of any religion. They choose the religion they want to follow and never attempt to change it, good or bad. Sometimes they change their childhood religion imposed on by their parents and some just stick to it since that is what they have grown up to be familiar with. They just remain loyal to one religion throughout life. One religion, one pattern of worship and can be very loyal to the rules and regulation of such religion they choose to follow. Like I said, it will take a comprehensive argument make them change their choice of religion. When it comes to the Christian gospel, we say, preach, pray and have faith that they will someday, even today, come to the understanding of Christ Jesus the Son of the most High as it is written in the Bible, in the book of; Ephesians 1: 17-20,
“That the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give unto you the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of him: The eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints, And what is the exceeding greatness of his power to us-ward who believe, according to the working of his mighty power, Which he wrought in Christ, when he raised him from the dead, and set him at his own right hand in the heavenly places.
Chapter Three – MEET Two Directional Desiree
This can also be referred to as “Dual Directional Personality”. These set of people have the ability to categorize their desires into dual options. They are not satisfied with one option even if that is the only option available. They always believe that there is an extra option to go for. Unlike the One Directional Desiree, who can limit himself to one option and then improvise that one option of desire to meet his several needs. The Dual Directional Desiree personality is not like that, rather than fully utilize the first option of his desire; he might go for a seen option or create another option if it is not available within his time of need.
Therefore, they often find themselves between two useful options and are tempted to go for both. Yet, logically, they eventually chose one of their options and work with it but they will further divide that one option into two, categorizing that one option into two similar variables, serving the same purposes but deliberately using it differently. They can only satisfy themselves fulfilled if they break down the only available option into two. This pattern of Desire Personality affects the Choices they make in all hemisphere of their life; marital, physically, spiritual, financially, academically, socially and materially.
The demerit side of the Two or Dual Directional Desiree Personality is that if they don’t manage their appetite for making double decisions thoroughly, they will become double minded and the bible reproved such double active minded people in James 1:8, “A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.” Confirmed also in James 4:8,“Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.”
It often leads to doubt in God if this human behavioral pattern is not well managed.
NOTE: The Four Basic Temperaments such as; the Sanguine, Choleric, Melancholy, and the Phlegmatic can be related with this Dual Desiree Personality. But the most prominent temperaments in this category are the Phlegmatic and Melancholy, the introverts. This is because they can study people from a distance, understand personalities and work within the given frame of relationship open or closed to them. They will always thrive to manage their friends and keep them, loyal and faithful, introduce them to each other. Yet they know the group they truly belong to without any shadow of doubt. The extroverts as well are not left out, the Sanguine and the Choleric, but the reason why they are not affirmed as the most prominent is because they don’t like to be limited in their choice of friends, they can’t be faithful to only two groups of friends, they prefer an open door of various type of friends, you will find them Prominent in Multiple and Opportunist Directional Desiree Personality.
Choice of Friends: The Dual Desire Personalities have a big cycle of friends, but only a bit bigger than Mono Desire Personalities that is, One Directional Personalities. Their group of friends is usually in doubles, they linger between two different set of friends being the intermediary. Sometimes, he may find himself between two opposing parties and he will have to be the peace maker. This is good but when it comes to sticking with one side of the coin (friends), they may mismanage the relationship of both parties and loose on both sides.
Party A Friends and Party B Friends are different from each other but only Mr. Dual knows them. He knows he is the link between Party A and Party B but he is confused on which side to stick with. If you find yourself in this category, you don’t have to get worried.
Take a time out with both parties on different dates, at different times. Know what they like to do and what they like about you and why they like to always have you around. Know what you contribute to the friendship and often they appreciate it. Don’t just know their age bracket or differences; understand it, align it with their level of maturity. Maybe the challenge you are facing is that you have assumed that since one group of your friends are older than the other, and then they deserve to be respected of by the other group that is less in age to the other group with older age difference. You don’t have to create such assumption for any group, what you need to do is let them know about it. For example, you have friends who are in their early Twenties just like you, and you also have friends who are in their early Thirties. You don’t have to create ‘a must’ respect authority over your friends who are your age mate. Your early Twenty friends will only respect your early Thirty friends the same way you do respect them. If you know your early Thirty friends deserve more respect from your age mate friends, then show your early Thirty aged friends such respect and let your mates follow you. With this, you can easily bring them together on your contacts and theirs without conflicts.
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